A commentary by a Victoria resident who is active in the community.
Try being “kind,” “calm,” “safe” and especially try to be “happy” for just one day at a time.
Six months ago, I was diagnosed with terminal cancer, the dreaded “C” word. Six months to a year — maybe a bit more — to enjoy life, be considerate of others, be happy and rest in the moment. Imagine, right in the middle of a global pandemic! What could be worse news … or maybe even better?
I am now motivated to use the time I have as fully as possible. I can’t afford to be angry or be critical … it zaps too much energy!
In the past, I always looked forward to reading the comment section in the Times Colonist. The hilarious, sometimes hard-hitting, sarcastic but timely cartoon feature continues to be a highlight of my day.
Unfortunately, I can no longer waste time reading the multitude of negative letters referring to so many issues in this fine city of ours, and I now simply scan the headings and turn the page.
Why is there so much print space dedicated to people who cannot accept bike lanes? Is it too difficult to go for a walk in your neighbourhood or local trail or downtown if you don’t have a bike or car?
Have you seen just how many thousands of people and families enjoy the weather and exercise, safely on these bike lanes every day?
Why do we now need to read about all the neighbourhood complaints from Oak Bay, Fairfield, Richardson and Cook Street about major rebuilds, traffic-pattern changes, street parking and on and on?
Must be so disappointing to all those complainers when the lanes are installed and work so well for the majority of their neighbours.
Why is it necessary for readers to write in and complain about other provinces, municipalities and countries regarding the COVID-19 vaccination race?
You’ll get your COVID-19 shot sooner than promised. It’s wonderful for everyone. Stay safe!
I drive downtown regularly, check out the new local retail shops and also the many new restaurants that have opened very successfully since the pandemic arrived.
Oh, and by the way, I never have a problem finding a place to park on the street or in a parkade, any time of day. Try downloading the parking app! It’s fun.
Contrary to the many folks that write in that haven’t been to Beacon Hill Park lately due to all the negative press regarding the homeless situation, the park still exists and it is a beautiful place to visit and observe nature.
For those that complained about the restoration project along Ogden Point and Dallas Road, it, too, worked out just fine for walkers, nature lovers, cyclists and parking for cars.
Have you enjoyed it yet? I’m sure Clover Point will survive its upheaval, too.
If you’re walking around downtown in the evening, take a quick ride on a Harbour Ferry and check out the Blue Bridge spectacle at dusk and snap a few pictures.
It really is blue! You might get lucky and even see it being raised once in a while. Looks amazing.
Don’t worry, it’s still a very safe city regardless of the odd incident we hear about every day/night.
As a senior, I have no concerns wandering around downtown in the early evening, stopping in to support the local bars and restaurants.
Great news, by the way … the businesses on Broad Street (at Broughton) have the go-ahead to continue with their streetscape — patios and other seating areas outside restaurants, coffee shops and specialty shops.
It’s a great little area to hang out and enjoy as the weather improves. Well done!
So, I’m here for now. The present moment is a precious moment.
Staying “happy” requires effort!
Let’s lighten up and play, stop at the bakery, walk along a beach, look over the ocean, hold hands, eat a sweet treat, hang out in your neighbourhood and beautiful Victoria, be thankful for all your wonderful friends and family members.
Each day, say “I love you.”
Stop complaining, even just for one day. You can do it. Imagine what a full page of “happy” stories in the comment section of the Times Colonist would look like, just one day.
